I believe I have figured out what is, and what causes the Mid-Life Crisis (MLC).
Financial experts all around the world agree that at, or around, age 40 that people begin to wake up financially and realize that they need to start investing so that they can retire without having to resort to cat food.
The crisis part comes in when people realize they wasted their youth spending money unconsciously and now have nothing to show for it. But wait Amn Duffle, isn’t it okay for people to have different life paths? And if so, is this really a crisis?
Yes and no, let me explain…
It’s not truly a crisis YET because the average 40 year old probably has a decent-paying job that can support his or her family and afford to live a fairly-comfortable American lifestyle. By this point the 40 year old has probably had a few promotions and feels at the top of his or her game at their job.
But, you see, at age 40 when people really begin investing, what they’re actually facing is the reality that they MUST work for the next 20 – 30ish years in the same hellish job just to break even in their shiny new retirement accounts. Instead of being able to retire and play golf like the media portrays, they are stuck working with failing bodies in jobs that are looking to replace them with fresher faces who will work cheaper.
THAT’s the crisis!
I’d imagine, it’s not easy coming to terms with a lifetime of bad choices and it’s pretty ironic that the most stereotypical thing we associate with the MLC is the acquisition of more debt in the form of a sports car. Maybe the person feels compelled to double-down on their behavior since changing seems futile… AND, they’re going to have to keep working anyways, so… might as well enjoy the time.